To be honest, people don’t care

Let's kick off today with a quote and a story that really hit home for me:

'Dance like nobody's watching, love like you've never been hurt, sing like nobody's listening, and live like it's heaven on earth.'

This quote resonated with me deeply, especially during my college days when I used to fear judgment. To break out of my comfort zone, I dove into internships where I met an inspiring person.

She was slender due to hormonal issues, yet her kindness was unmatched. Working with her, I realized she never judged others; instead, she sought to understand them.

Curious, I asked her how she handled potential judgment so effortlessly. Her response was a game-changer: 'People don't care about your looks or actions. Our fears stem from internal uncertainties like failure and rejection—mere assumptions.'

These words shifted my perspective. Of course, it's not about disregarding everyone's opinion, but rather distinguishing between random judgments and those from people who genuinely care about you. Guidance from loved ones matters more than judgment.

My mom's wise words echo in my mind: 'If you worry about what people think, what will people think?' It may sound tricky, but once you grasp it, it all starts making sense.